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Join us for an intimate affair as we learning, exploring, and connecting with the art of Shibari!

Mari, @TheTantricMystic, will lead us in learning the art of Shibari, how to do basic self ties, and how to engage in rope play with a partner. Jill (Bare By Barrile), and Ashera (Whole Stories Therapy) will help facilitate a conversation about power, pleasure, and vulnerability in partnership. There will be opportunities to practice and a Photo Booth to document your new learning skills.

We request all tickets to be purchased 24 hours in advance so we ensure the proper amount of supplies. This event is 18+

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Your body is amazing! Let’s give it some gratitude. 💗

Tell me something awesome your body can do, gets to do, and what it feels like to have your body?

How many of you out there would like to mix business with pleasure?!?!

I've had many people of my clients use their boudoir images also for branding. For these women, our sessions feel just a little bit different.

They tell me after that:
✨A new spark has been ignited in them
✨They are feeling their power to create again
✨They are more connected to their feminine energy

How many creatives, business owners, and side hustlers do I have here? Have you ever thought about boudoir as branding... drop a comment below if this tickles your curiosity

Your power is in the being
Not, the doing

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I woke up this morning with a clear perspective. Last night, I kept things low key and let myself melt into my couch and then into the bathtub and then into my bed.

It was necessary to re-calibrate, relax, and be in my own energy.

Something sort of surfaced for me this morning, mostly around embodiment.

👁First, when I say embodiment, do you know what that means or feels like?

For me, embodiment is the act of fully feeling in your body and connected to yourself, your needs, and desires.

I have noticed when clients leave a boudoir session, they start to fully embody what it feels like to BE powerful, BE strong, BE sensual, and BE empowered. Because, maybe for the first time they are given the freedom to fully express this in a safe space.

We can say we are
Powerful
Strong
Empowered
Sensual

but until we feel them from the end of our hair down into our 🐱, they are just words.

It’s like, you can read all the best books and listen to the best self help podcast out there, but until you actually feel it, move with it, be it, embody it- nothing is going to change.

Thinking about it, Have you ever said, I am powerful and felt it as truth, tingling throughout your entire body?

Now, let’s be real, that doesn’t happen over night but it can happen faster than u think.

First it starts, with speaking it out loud, like a mantra; I am good enough, I am desirable, I am a mf goddess.

Then, we rewrite and get rid of any beliefs that come up that tell you otherwise, maybe something like; your a fraud, why would someone like me, I’m horrible.

Then we start to move it into our body, dance with what it feels like to be seen, juicy, and hott af,

That’s where I come in! I help u feel these things in your body and then take home the proof wrapped up in a cute little album that is a forever reminder of your worthiness.

Hmmm, how does that feel?

Yeahhh, 😅 you want to know what that feels like? Dm me

I wouldn't if I were you
I know what she can do
She's deadly, man
And she could really rip your world apart
Mind over matter
Ooh, the beauty is there
But a beast is in the heart
❤️

Did I forget to tell you...

Something sort of fell into my lap. Well, more like it flew at my face and I either needed to catch it or let it hit me.

(((BOOM)))

SOOOO I just started my TRAINING TO BE AN S3x EDUCATOR & INTIMACY COACH!! EKKKK

When this opportunity came to me, I had little time to think about it (about less than 8 hours actually lol) BUT I can tell you now, this was a full body- HELL YES!!! So, I just went for it!

Ever since working in boudoir + intimacy, I have noticed a deep desire in my clients for CONNECTION- to themselves and others- as well as their NEED for PLEASURE. 😌 yet, they help back, felt shame, and closed up.

With that, I started to feel this extreme pull that I was meant to do MORE.

So I waited, and waited, and waited. For IT to show up.

That’s the thing about following your path though- usually the things that are for you just appear and it’s up to you to take it or not.

I am so exited for this next layer of BARE to be uncovered and to be able to create more Pleasure Positive experiences for my clients as we TRANSFORM from the inside out!

So if you think its yummy in here now.. just you wait! It’s about to get really juicy! 💦

Sometimes we are so wrapped up in doing that we forget about just being. 😌

Finish this sentence for me…

I am worthy of ______.

I have to tell you about this. 🖤

Earlier this year, I invested 30k into my yoni.

What that really means is I dedicated this year to uncovering, healing, and pulling out everything inside of me.

With the guidance and knowledge of my couch @thevenuslegacy, I was able to work through the trauma that I have been holding inside my womb, and hips for lifetimes. And at the same time, sourcing the most pure ideas and perspectives I’ve ever had.

With her help, I was able to push pass the pain, uncover the wildness wrapped up inside of me, and let my body actually speak to me instead of telling her how to feel and act.

Then something magical happened…

✨I started to live in full integrity of my path, purpose, and goals
✨I now am about to easily express my standards, desires, and boundaries
✨I was able to enter a healthy relationship that is both passionate and stable.

And, reflecting back on that now, I would have spent 10xs that to feel this free. I had no idea what was in the other side of that experience- but I can tell u,for me, it is priceless

When I started listening to my body and my whole self, life got easier. I am now able to maintain my bliss and harmony while still moving through tough stuff.

Why am I telling you all this…

In our boudoir + intimacy session, that’s exactly that space I hold for you. A space for you feel empowered, safe, creative, liberated, raw, sensual, and playful.

For many, this is where are deepest wounds can be healed, our internal strength embodies, and our force unstoppable.

Curious what’s on the other side of your photo session? Let’s chat, consultation link in bio.

Rainy days, make me want to play 🌧

Give me all your curves, shadows, and dips, I want all of it.

Ready to work with me? Book your consultation call and step into my orbit. Link in bio.

This is the M O O D 🖤

Anyone else have a trench coat fantasy? 🧥

Are you going nude or something small + lacy underneath?

When your girl is an EDM queen, you pull out all the neons. 🌈

For whosever needs to hear it

🫶Keep your standards high
🫶Say what you want
🫶Raise your prices
🫶Act with intention

Summer’s not over yet! I need more of you rolling around on the beach getting wet with me.

Celebrating this women on her second shoot with me!!

MAN, round 2 was...
So Different
So Free
So much more Edgy

With each shoot, we delayer. We get closer to your wholeness, your bareness, and your truth.

Just know, you all inspire the crap out of me! and I love seeing you come alive to yourself over and over again right in front of my eyes!

I am at the tail end of a really big chapter and I am really looking forward to sharing everything with you and all the lessons and medicine I was gifted from the experience.

But..

Until then, I wanted to share some of the sweetness I extracted from yesterday's women circle.

✨If you're feeling a little foggy lately, you are not alone. This is the void. Its sometimes uncomfortable and unsure but is so necessary to landing in the next place. Allow yourself to appreciate it.

✨If you are being met by the same problems, relationships woes, and irking situations you are being asked to show up differently this time. Do it.

✨It's ok to do nothing, to sit in your feelings of bliss, anger, or discomfort. Give them space and time to be felt.

✨Quiet the mind, and dip into the body. Listen, what is your body telling you.

✨Someone, MAYBE YOU, has to go first! That can feel scary but is necessary to form new paths. Someone, somewhere one day will thank you!

✨Move! Dance, shake, hula hoop- this helps regulate your nervous system, process your emotions and unstick the sticky.

Thank you all who joined up last night. It was beautiful to see you all. Truly it was magic!

Next Circle: September 13th
Link in bio

A few more from Ryan's (@theloganbetty) session with me!

As I go through these photos the more I realize THIS WORK is acutally about uncovering the deepest parts of you and capturing you in your realness.

I want to hold space for anyone who wants to go there, get raw, and uncover new truths for themselves.

THIS IS GETTING BARE!

All parts of you want to be seen! What parts of you wants to get louder, more vibrant, and more alive?

Remember, you can be both soft and powerful at the same time 💥

Drip
Drip
Drippin in pearls.

The latest edition to the client closet comes from @thenookieshop in Toronto. You must stop in on your next trip up north if your looking to add something little more tantalizing to your wardrobe or your bedside table 💋

Our Emergence Membership program is LIVE!!!

FINALLY!!
More shoots
More connection
More delayering
More empowerment

This is more than just a self love journey but is a true commitment to your wholeness for 12 months with me!

Know that this is meant for you if you are ready shed layers and embody your truths. In this container, you will dedicate this space to the creation of YOU through creative expression and storytelling.

Through years of experience in boudoir and personal self growth, we have carefully curated every detail to make your journey exceptional to your specific path.

Commit to the transformative power of boudoir + intimacy with our membership experience and what emerges, will be destiny!!

Info link in bio!

The Wild Woman

The Wild Woman archetype represents the fierce, untethered spirit within all of us, calling us to reconnect with our primal instincts and the rhythms of nature.

🌙 She's the howling wolf under the moon, the wind that dances through the trees, and the fire that burns in our souls. She embodies strength, independence, and a deep connection to the earth.

🌿 She thrives in the wilderness, finding solace in the untamed beauty of nature. Her footsteps leave imprints on untrodden paths, as she fearlessly explores the depths of her own being.

💃 She dances to her own rhythm, unapologetically embracing her quirks, passions, and desires. She listens to the whispers of her intuition, leading her on a journey of self-discovery and self-expression.

✨ Embracing the Wild Woman archetype is an invitation to reclaim your power, authenticity, and freedom. It's about honoring your primal instincts, finding strength in vulnerability, and living life on your own terms.

🔥 Unleash your inner Wild Woman. Let her guide you through the wilderness of life, empowering you to fully embrace the untamed magic within you. Embrace your wildness, for it is where your truest self resides.

Here is your weekly reminder to
S T R E T C H

Sundays never felt so good.

That excited, nervous feeling your feeling… well, that’s growth darling 🌿

You have everything you ever needed inside of you.

What you need are the keys, codes, and downloads to access your depth, deep layers, and personal truths.

Sometime these keys come in the form of experiences, relationships, or intuitive hits to move you, rewild you, break your down to build back differently.

Shhh, wait a second. Do you hear those whispers? There getting louder.

They ask…

What needs to go, be cleared out to make way for the new?

How can we listen more in order to take better aligned action in our life’s?

Who are we surrounding ourselves with that both encourages us and mirror back to us what we can’t quite see in ourselves?

Happy Father’s Day, Daddies 💙

Tag the hottest dad you know and remind them that they too deserve to feel confident and empowered in themselves too!

For those that need to hear this…

You can be both this 👉and👈that at the same time.

You can hold being a caretaking and mama AND also be a sensual erotic women. It’s about EMBODY both of them at the same time.

What do I mean by that?

I mean you can allow both parts of you to be present by honoring both of their needs and desires.

I embody my mothering parts by nurturing myself so I can take care of him better, be present with him, and hold his hand through these early life lessons.

I embody my erotic self by giving myself the pleasures I desire- dark chocolate mid day, a steamy bath, a quiet walk, a yummy connection.

You can be both and have both- they both exist inside of you. Don’t be afraid to let them meet each other and be equals or maybe even friends because both of these parts matter.

I feel like playing in water all summer.

Who’s with me?

Hey now,

I’m ready to ride this ooey gooey flow of ecstasy with you. To dip down into the depths of you
to breathe with you
move with you
and feel the pulse of you.

With mouths open, I take in your
Taste
Touch
Feel

I am mesmerized by you.

I find myself in you. I let go of control with you. I relax into you.

I see you and in seeing you, I see me too.

Quiet the mind
And, dip down into the body.

Unveiling some NEW things very soon!!

Let me ask you this…

Are you ready to:
✨Indulge and feel alive in your body again.
✨Tap into your creativity and the visual representation of yourself.
✨Show up bigger in your life, relationships, and desires.
✨Change your overall perception of yourself and what you are fully capable of.

Does this speak to you? Because I can’t even wait to see how 🧨 explosive this experience is going to be for the right women or man in my new membership program: EMERGENCE 🔥

If this tickles your fancy, head to my bio and preregister. I’ll be offering only 2 beta memberships to start and they are going to be truly transformative 🙌

TOUCH

When was the last time you gave your body some love? Really felt your skins, the curve of your hips, and the grooves on your legs?

I bet it’s been a while. Next time, before you get dressed or after a shower, take a moment to look at yourself, maybe grab some lotion and lather it on every inch of you. Tell your body how much you appreciate all the things it allows you to do, feel, and create.

What did she say to you afterwards? Tell me!

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